tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post3528566949666171733..comments2023-10-30T07:37:54.529-04:00Comments on For The Love of Dominance: Saving The DynamicMistressDelilahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16170741536448910741noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-44154799089959136862013-12-29T12:51:42.884-05:002013-12-29T12:51:42.884-05:00Hello Delila,
"The biggest problem on My end...Hello Delila,<br /><br />"The biggest problem on My end is that his reaction terrified Me. This was not just anger, it was RAGE, white hot rage and it was terrifying."<br /><br />I used to have a lot of rage at one time in my life. It came from my past. People described me as a walking time bomb. I have learned to grow from it and direct it in more positive and healthy ways. This is not an easy task to do when you have built up rage that is originating from somewhere full of dark hurt. Now when I feel myself getting worked up I quickly call a timeout. I have even told my partners and used the words "time out" to let them know I need to stop myself before I get to where I can't stop myself. Because if I get to that point of rage..I really can't stop myself no matter how much I want too and how much my mind tells me to stop I just can't seem to stop. So now I make sure that I don't get anywhere near that point. Good luck to both of you in working through this. <br /><br />Respectfully,<br />MysticlezAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-67334525707629221962013-12-09T08:41:22.650-05:002013-12-09T08:41:22.650-05:00Delila & Tomio,
I'm so sorry to hear that...Delila & Tomio,<br /><br />I'm so sorry to hear that both of you are going through this, but it makes my heart happy to hear that you're taking it a day at a time and talking through it. :)<br /><br />Besides all of that, I think it's so important for other couples to see that even the best relationships (D/s, vanilla, or otherwise) are all flawed. None of us are perfect and it's not sunshine and roses (or whips and clamps and fun) all the time. So glad you're working through it, and thanks to you both for sharing. <br /><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01952564605842704398noreply@blogger.com