tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post7666192418646701792..comments2023-10-30T07:37:54.529-04:00Comments on For The Love of Dominance: What IS Sensual DominationMistressDelilahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16170741536448910741noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-60800389027246590902017-02-03T02:18:13.907-05:002017-02-03T02:18:13.907-05:00I've used a sensuous dominance approach for ov...I've used a sensuous dominance approach for over 30 years with 6 female submissives in LTRs. More sensuality and very measured pain works especially well when living together. Denial of affection & isolation are pretty strong on a mature woman. pretty obvioushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13291040452762011271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-66486519057165434402015-06-09T19:55:49.811-04:002015-06-09T19:55:49.811-04:00Hello FTLOD,
I'm glad that I stumbled across y...Hello FTLOD,<br />I'm glad that I stumbled across your blog and this perfectly describes me. I realize that I'm not alone and reading the comments in this thread gives me some confidence. It would be really helpful if you gave me some insight/advice on what I should do. Here is my story.<br /><br />I met this guy on a dating website and we kind of connected. I've always been attracted to danger but have been too much of a chicken to do things myself. So basically, I like bad boys and he is kind of a closet bad boy -- which I adore. So after talking for a couple of days, I revealed to him that I am a domme, but a sensual domme - not the harsh kind people watch as Bondage porn and he responded saying that he had never actually met a domme and that he was interested in taking things to the next level with me. By next level, I mean couple of dates first and then exploring each other. I pretty much enjoy doing the same things you described with one exception , I am new to this. I like being in control - in all aspects of my life so when it comes to sex, its not a surprise. The thing that is bothering me right now is, after all that heated sext and talking we did for a couple of days, I rarely hear from him. We exchanged numbers and everything and I'm now wondering if this guy just went along with my story just for the fun of it because I said I was a domme or if he really meant all that he shared. From the looks of it, he seemed to know the kink world pretty well and now I'm confused and don't really know what to do. Do you think I should talk to him or give him an ultimatum? I don/t want to come across needy or clingy. Please help!dippydawgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-5979600503969491352015-02-26T21:18:09.342-05:002015-02-26T21:18:09.342-05:00Thats the kind of Domme i want to be. I know i wan...Thats the kind of Domme i want to be. I know i want a male submissive, bt i dont have it in me to be cruel unless that was the game we were playing. I want to treasure and apriciate my submissive as a man as well as a sub, and i want him to be a man in his won right with his own personality, one i can respect and admire. You put it into the perfect words, he isnt a submissive to the world, he is a submissive to just me. Im so glad i can see that you dont have to be hard and cruel to be a good domme.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-8904104343415699152014-09-04T22:37:45.263-04:002014-09-04T22:37:45.263-04:00Maybe its me but this bdsm sounds like and acts li...Maybe its me but this bdsm sounds like and acts like a marriage... a true marriage to say the least... correct me if I'm wrong?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-79367495812511420762014-08-27T16:23:04.684-04:002014-08-27T16:23:04.684-04:00I have always been intrigued about BDSM, and after...I have always been intrigued about BDSM, and after extensive research, Sensual Dominance would be the only one that I would be willing to find out more about if I ever thought to go into this world. Thanks for writing this it made for fancinating and excellent readingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-86207527321359407072014-05-14T01:43:45.744-04:002014-05-14T01:43:45.744-04:00I am fairly new to the lifestyle, but I've al...I am fairly new to the lifestyle, but I've always been a strong woman. I have an extremely large capacity for love and openness. Therefore, against all traditional wisdom, I tell my slaves that I love them! I am not sadistic and if I need to disclipline my pets, I do so for their benefit. I am a sensual Domme.QUEENIRLENEnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-64269807793636715262013-04-16T09:36:01.498-04:002013-04-16T09:36:01.498-04:00i have wondered through time and this world, often...i have wondered through time and this world, often asking myself who am i, what am i.. i considered my self always sensual yet dominant.. but could never and did never put the 2 together, untill that is i met a woman, a gorgous lil one, who told me simply ..you are dominant a sensual one.. and at that moment i realised... i am... and im ok with it, reading this was an insight as well and i like what i read...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-28218987081627108312013-04-10T13:11:51.350-04:002013-04-10T13:11:51.350-04:00I love this. I am a Polyamorous female that has al...I love this. I am a Polyamorous female that has always been fascinated with the lifestyle. I've been repeatedly told through the years that I am truly a Dom...unrealized! I am sensual and sexy and I need everything to be beautiful. Men fall at my feet and wish to please me, but I never considered this a form of domination. Until my recent pet told me that that is what he is...my pet! Do you believe that there is a niche professionally for Sensual Dommes? This is what I want!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08355415472251422781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-54627438498444328912012-12-27T13:53:48.851-05:002012-12-27T13:53:48.851-05:00Thank you.
I experienced this type of Domination ...Thank you.<br /><br />I experienced this type of Domination once, on accident, just before he moved across the country. I have been wanting ever since. I'm not sure how to go about findng someone; at lease not someone with experience who also lives anywhere near me. But you have given me hope. I know that it wasn't a fluke. It exists, it has a name, and it is as beautiful as I remember it to be.<br /><br />So thank you. <br /><br />Love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-37818564040018734342012-10-06T23:30:33.952-04:002012-10-06T23:30:33.952-04:00You have pretty much just described my relationshi...You have pretty much just described my relationship with my boyfriend/Dom. If he didn't love me and I didn't love him then our relationship would probably be very different, he would probably be a bit more sadistic. He loves me too much to ever hurt me physically, sure he spanks, flogs, whips and bites but I love that and I love submitting to him. I laugh when other Doms/Dommes and subs say we are "not a real D/s couple" I think a lot of the time it comes down to jealousy on their part. I feel safer than I ever have and I know I can trust him 100% I would never say no to anything he wanted as I know me being safe and loved is his no1 priority. Thank you for posting this. xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-57188869294031398102011-10-19T04:49:14.239-04:002011-10-19T04:49:14.239-04:00i agree with Twoo Domina... it'd be great to k...i agree with Twoo Domina... it'd be great to know such things rather than any 'physical issues'...'mental plane' is more complicated and interesting. Though i agree that the physical, at such times, really calms down the mental... Great read.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3853913765851768901.post-81330965507654352632011-09-17T20:19:41.797-04:002011-09-17T20:19:41.797-04:00"First, lets talk about what it IS. It is Con..."First, lets talk about what it IS. It is Control: complete and utter. I tell him what to wear, when to get up, when to exercise, how to take care of himself, what to eat, what not to eat, and I control every aspect of our sexual relationship (when, if, how, how long, where and most importantly, when and if he get to release.)"<br /><br /><br />This is what I'm looking for.<br /><br />Would love it if you two would write a bit about how you found each other, evaluated each other, and worked out actually relating as two people in this beautiful dynamic.Twoo Dominahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13085365101600988808noreply@blogger.com