Kinky AND normal? You bet!

OK here's the thing...  I am a Dominant women, but I live in a vanilla world.

Don't get me wrong, I love the vanilla world and I LOVE that I can blend into it so easily.  It makes me feel like Diana Prince.  NO Not Princess Di...  Diana Prince, Wonder Woman's Secret Identity.  (Yes I had to look it up too!)   I was going to say Bruce Wayne, but that confuses gender issues and I am NOT going there.  I am all woman, big boobs, big hips, big attitude...

Yes you guessed it, I am moderately aggressive, demanding, opinionated, difficult, stubborn and when I get pissed off, it takes a while for Me to come back down. But I am not always a bitch.  I am actually very generous, sweet, loving and amusing.   I can assure you that if I walked up to any member of My social circles and said, "I am a Sensual Dominant, involved in a long term BDSM relationship."  They would check me for a fever then laugh themselves silly.

This is a good thing.  Its not that I am in the proverbial closet (OMG the shoe closet would be an awesome place to be!) its just that I have decided that My life outside the BDSM world is good, stable and sane and there is no reason to rock the boat.  I like be liked (or disliked) for being Myself, not because of someone's preconceived notion of what Domination is.

Every morning at the gym, I watch TV while I work out. Most of the time I get hooked on crime shows.  I have been shocked, again and again, how many people are SUSPECTS because of their BDSM connection.  Most are proven to be unconnected to the crime, but sadly, quite a few of them turn out to be psychos.

There is a certain level of suspicion and distrust of people that are outside the realm of normal.   Not only do I not want to be seen as an outsider, but I don't think that My sexuality needs to be on display.  I don't feel that others could trust Me as a kind, generous and loving person if they knew I like to tie up My lover and ass fuck him with a sparkly purple strap-on until he can't form sentences.  LMAO!!

There is this odd and unfair stereotype that would make family members distrust Me with their children and spouses...  I mean its not like I can say, "Mom, you should see how sexy My lover is, when he is collared and kneeling in front of Me!"  LMAO  But I also would not say "Mom you should see how sexy My lover is in his plaid jammies, and the missionary sex is amazing!"    The point of all of this is that it is not necessary to have My sexuality on display in any form.  It is not relevant to My life outside of My relationship and  I like My privacy.

But what about the blog,you say?   Well...  The point of this blog is to help people realize that they CAN be kinky and wicked and still be normal, regular people!  Not only that, but kinky and wicked can be loving, caring, gentle and passionate.  The softer side, the Sensual Domination side of The Kink does not get enough  air time!  No one talks about the cuddling and kissing and loving service, because its just not as crazy and exciting as a bound man being required to paint his Mistress's toenails holding the brush between his teeth to avoid a beating.  Yes this is the bullshit I read about, and the morons go nuts for it!  By the way, the above mentioned activity is a complete fantasy and is not physically possible, unless you want your whole friggin foot spotted with polish, in which case, you are...  a dope.  Sometimes people are idiots, and idiots don't even make up good fantasies.

Instead of such nonsense, I do various dark and dirty things to (and with) My sweetness, then I hold and cuddle him.  We kiss, snuggle, laugh, take long hot showers.  He has recently started "snuffling" Me.    He crams his nose into My neck, behind My ear and loudly and dramatically snuffs, sniffs and inhales. Its silly and ridiculous and it makes Me laugh out loud, so I love it!  The we do "normal things" that allow us to be seen, out in the world.  We shop, eat out, walk hand in hand, go to the car wash....  We just do regular things, but with a little extra love, because We can, and because, as his Dominant...  I insist on it.  (GRINS)

Go ahead, take a chance, taste the kink...you can relax in knowing that its your own private little world, and no one else needs to know how delicious it is!